Choices Choices Choices
So I have had to make a difficult yet easy decision. Where to go on Christmas eve and Christmas day. I have decided to spend both days with Daniel and his family. I feel kind of bad because me sister will be here and well what happened on thanksgiving and all. But shouldn't I do what will make me happy? My dad doesn't understand he doesn't think that I should be away from the family. But you know someday they will be my family and then we will have to decide where to go and what day. My dad just doesn't seem to understand that hey im an adult now I can make my own decisions and I don't need him telling me what I can and cant do anymore. OK sorry im done now.
Happy Holidays everyone!
I was in a hurry this morning on my way to work so I didn't get a chance to write all that should have been said. SO the reason I decided not to go to my family's house for the holidays was because well my dad told me that Daniel wasn't allowed to come with me. Why you ask I have no idea. I had always thought that my dad liked Daniel but for some reason he said that he couldn't come. That is why I am not going there this year.
posted by Zachary at 9:43 AM
6 Comments:
Well, there comes a point where you have to do what you want to do. From what I have heard, your dad has been somewhat difficult. If he were willing to accommodate Dizz at your families gatherings (which from the story I have heard, he is not) then it would be a whole different issue. At that point you should feel bad about not wanting to share time. However, if the only condition for you spending time for your family is that Daniel can't be there, well, then it is not unreasonable for you to say that you will go where the time can be spent with Daniel. You know you and Reptar are always welcome with our family. It will be a good Christmas.
your dad talked to me about this and said that if you wanted Daniel along, you just had to talk to your grandfather and he didnt think there would be a problem.
i told your dad that if you feel like you want the support of havingthe man you love at your side through your first Christmas without your grandfather, i thought they were being petty to ask you not to have that support.
so try talking to your grandfather. if you threaten them with no Zac at Christmas it should work out just fine. it is wonderful that you are so accepted at Daniel's family, but remember you two have years of fighting over who's family you visit, if you work it out early on, it will make life easier in the future.
good luck.
omg, i hated the juggling family on holidays. a few years ago we decided to juggle only thanksgiving. Christmas, we stay home and focus on the kids. family has understood and we get together at other times.
here via michele...have a good one whatever you choose.
Merry Christmas!
we are lucky in this matter, since my husband's family lives a million miles away in europe. you do have your own family now and that includes your husband's family, and sometimes that's a hard thing for parents and grandparents to see.
thanks for visiting my blog! we're not too far away from you in portland. i'll be back to visit more often!
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